To celebrate growing older, I once wrote few lessons
life taught me. It is the most requested column I've ever written.
Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt,
just take the next small step.
3. Your job won't take care of you when
you are sick. Your friends and family will.
4. You don't have
to win every argument. Stay true to yourself.
5. Cry with someone.
It's more healing than crying alone.
6. It's OK to get angry with God. He
can take it.
7. Make peace with your past so it won't mess up the
8. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what
their journey is all about.
9. Take a deep breath every now and then.
It calms the mind.
10. Get rid of anything that isn't useful. Clutter
weighs you down in many ways.
11. Whatever doesn't kill you really
does make you stronger.
12. It's never too late to be happy. But it’s
all up to you and no one else.
13. When it comes to going after what
you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
14. Burn the candles,
use the nice sheets, wear the fancy clothes. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
15. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'
Always choose life.
18. Forgive others and yourself.
19. What other people think of you is none of your business.
Time heals almost everything. Give time a little time.
good or bad a situation is, it will change.
22. Don't take yourself
so seriously. No one else does.
23. Believe in miracles.
24. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
old beats the alternative of dying young.
27. Your children get only one childhood.
28. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
is waste of time. Accept what you already have, not what you need.
The best is yet to come...
32. No matter how you feel, get up, dress
up and show up.
33. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."
Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain
b Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio
A lovely little girl was holding two apples with both hands.
Her mum came in and softly asked her little daughter with a smile: "My sweetie, could you give your mum one of
your two apples?"
The girl looked up at her mum for some seconds, then she suddenly took a quick bite on
one apple, and then quickly on the other.
The mum felt the smile on her face freeze. She tried hard not to reveal
Then the little girl handed one of her bitten apples to her mum, and said:
here you are. This is the sweeter one."
No matter who you are, how experienced you are, and how knowledgeable
you think you are, always delay judgement. Give others the privilege to explain themselves.
What you see may not be the reality. Never conclude for others.
Which is why we should never only focus
on the surface and judge others without understanding them first.
who apologizes first after a fight, do so not because they are wrong but because they value the people around them.
- Those who are willing to help you, do so not because they owe you
any thing but because they see you as a true friend.
who often text you, do so not because they have nothing better to do but because you are in their heart.
Those who like to pay the bill, do so not because they are loaded but because they value friendship above money.
- Those who take the initiative at work, do so not because they
are stupid but because they understand the concept of responsibility.
One day, all of us will get separated from each other; we will miss our conversations of everything &
nothing; the dreams that we had.
Days will pass by, months, years, until this contact becomes rare...
One day when we see our pictures and ask ourselves 'Who are these people?'
And we will smile
with invisible tears because a heart is touched with a strong word and you will say: 'IT WAS THEM THAT I HAD THE BEST DAYS
OF MY LIFE WITH'.
Forwarded by Victor Reutens
A father said to his son: "Be careful where you walk"
The son responded: "You be careful, remember that I follow in your footsteps".
"Hands that help are holier than lips that pray. Service to mankind is the service to God".
God has four gifts for
A key for every problem!
A light for every shadow!
A plan for every tomorrow!
A joy for every sorrow!
The first to apologize is the bravest.
first to forgive is the strongest.
The first to forget
is the happiest.
your worries into worship and watch God
battles into blessings.
Talent and looks is God- given BE THANKFUL.
and money is man given BE GRATEFUL.
and ego is self-given BE CAREFUL.
Distance doesn't matter if roots of your relationship
are strong enough
There is no greater wealth in this world than peace of mind.
A meaningful Life is not being rich, being popular, being highly
educated or being perfect.
It is about being real,
being humble, being strong being able to share ourselves and touch the lives of others.
It is only then that we could have full, happy and contented life.
When nails grow long we cut nails not finger.
Similarly when misunderstand grow up cut your ego, not your relationship.
your voice for kindness,
Your ears for compassion,
Your hands for charity,
Your mind for truth,
heart for love.
If we really want to LOVE
we must learn how to
Good people & leave the bad ones
But I say,
Find the Good in people & ignore the bad in them.
"No One is Perfect"
PEOPLE may not reward or thank you for the good things you've done...
But when GOD is your reason for serving, you will receive greater
BLESSINGS in return
powerful name is "GOD"
word is "BLESS"
The greatest sentence
is "GOD BLESS YOU"
Forwarded by Rajam Justin
Three days to see
by Helen Keller
of us have read thrilling stories in which the hero had only a limited and specified time to live. Sometimes it was as long
as a year; sometimes as short as twenty-four hours. But always we were interested in discovering just how the doomed man chose
to spend his last days or his last hours. I speak, of course, of free men who have a choice, not condemned criminals whose
sphere of activities is strictly delimited.
Such stories set us thinking, wondering what we should do under similar
circumstances. What events, what experiences, what associations, should we crowd into those last hours as mortal beings? What
happiness should we find in reviewing the past, what regrets?
Sometimes I have thought it would be an excellent
rule to live each day as if we should die tomorrow. Such an attitude would emphasize
sharply the values of life. We should live each day with a gentleness, a vigor, and a keenness of appreciation which are often
lost when time stretches before us in the constant panorama of more days and months and years to come. There are those, of
course, who would adopt the epicurean motto of 'Eat, drink, and be merry,' but most people would be chastened by the certainty
of impending death.
In stories, the doomed hero is usually saved at the last
minute by some stroke of fortune, but almost always his sense of values is changed. He becomes more appreciative of the meaning
of life and its permanent spiritual values. It has often been noted that those who live, or have lived, in the shadow of death
bring a mellow sweetness to everything they do.
Most of us, however, take life for granted. We know that one
day we must die, but usually we picture that day as far in the future. When we are in buoyant health, death is all but unimaginable.
We seldom think of it. The days stretch out in an endless vista. So we go about our petty tasks, hardly aware of our listless
attitude toward life.
The same lethargy, I am afraid, characterizes the use of all our faculties and senses.
Only the deaf appreciate hearing, only the blind realize the manifold blessings that lie in sight. Particularly does this
observation apply to those who have lost sight and hearing in adult life. But those who have never suffered impairment of
sight or hearing seldom make the fullest use of these blessed faculties. Their eyes and ears take in all sights and sounds
hazily, without concentration and with little appreciation. It is the same old story of not being grateful for what we have
until we lose it, of not being conscious of health until we are ill.
I have often thought it would be a blessing
if each human being were stricken blind and deaf for a few days at some time during his early adult life. Darkness would make
him more appreciative of sight; silence would teach him the joys of sound.
Now and then I have tested my seeing
friends to discover what they see. Recently I was visited by a very good friend who had just returned from a long walk in
the woods, and I asked her what she had observed. "Nothing in particular," she replied. I might have been incredulous
had I not been accustomed to such responses, for long ago I became convinced that the seeing see little.
was it possible, I asked myself, to walk for an hour through the woods and see nothing worthy of note? I who cannot see find
hundreds of things to interest me through mere touch. I feel the delicate symmetry of a leaf. I pass my hands lovingly about
the smooth skin of a silver birch, or the rough, shaggy bark of a pine. In spring I touch the branches of trees hopefully
in search of a bud, the first sign of awakening Nature after her winter's sleep. I feel the delightful, velvety texture of
a flower, and discover its remarkable convolutions; and something of the miracle of Nature is revealed to me. Occasionally,
if I am very fortunate, I place my hand gently on a small tree and feel the happy quiver of a bird in full song. I am delighted
to have the cool waters of a brook rush through my open fingers. To me a lush carpet of pine needles or spongy grass is more
welcome than the most luxurious Persian rug. To me the pageant of seasons is a thrilling and unending drama, the action of
which streams through my finger tips.
At times my heart cries out with longing to see all these things. If I
can get so much pleasure from mere touch, how much more beauty must be revealed by sight. Yet, those who have eyes apparently
see little. The panorama of color and action which fills the world is taken for granted. It is human, perhaps, to appreciate
little that which we have and to long for that which we have not, but it is a great pity that in the world of light the gift
of sight is used only as a mere convenience rather than as a means of adding fullness to life.
If I were the
president of a university I should establish a compulsory course in "How to Use Your Eyes." The professor would
try to show his pupils how they could add joy to their lives by really seeing what passes unnoticed before them. He would
try to awake their dormant and sluggish faculties.
Perhaps I can best illustrate by imagining what I should most like to see if I were given the use of my eyes, say,
for just three days. And while I am imagining, suppose you, too, set your mind to work on the problem of how you would use
your own eyes if you had only three more days to see. If with the oncoming darkness of the third night you knew that the sun
would never rise for you again, how would you spend those three precious intervening days? What would you most want to let
your gaze rest upon?
I, naturally, should want most to see the things which have become dear to me through my
years of darkness. You, too, would want to let your eyes rest long on the things that have become dear to you so that you
could take the memory of them with you into the night that loomed before you.
If, by some miracle, I were granted
three seeing days, to be followed by a relapse into darkness, I should divide the period into three parts.
the first day, I should want to see the people whose kindness and gentleness and companionship have made my life worth living.
First I should like to gaze long upon the face of my dear teacher, Mrs. Anne Sullivan Macy, who came to me when I was a child
and opened the outer world to me. I should want not merely to see the outline of her face, so that I could cherish it in my
memory, but to study that face and find in it the living evidence of the sympathetic tenderness and patience with which she
accomplished the difficult task of my education. I should like to see in her eyes that strength of character which has enabled
her to stand firm in the face of difficulties, and that compassion for all humanity which she has revealed to me so often.
I do not know what it is to see into the heart of a friend through that "window of the soul," the eye.
I can only "see" through my finger tips the outline of a face. I can detect laughter, sorrow, and many other obvious
emotions. I know my friends from the feel of their faces. But I cannot really picture their personalities by touch. I know
their personalities, of course, through other means, through the thoughts they express to me, through whatever of their actions
are revealed to me. But I am denied that deeper understanding of them which I am sure would come through sight of them, through
watching their reactions to various expressed thoughts and circumstances, through noting the immediate and fleeting reactions
of their eyes and countenance.
Friends who are near to me I know well, because through the months and years they
reveal themselves to me in all their phases; but of casual friends I have only an incomplete impression, an impression gained
from a handclasp, from spoken words which I take from their lips with my finger tips, or which they tap into the palm of my
How much easier, how much more satisfying it is for you who can see to grasp quickly the essential qualities
of another person by watching the subtleties of expression, the quiver of a muscle, the flutter of a hand. But does it ever
occur to you to use your sight to see into the inner nature of a friend or acquaintance? Do not most of you seeing people
grasp casually the outward features of a face and let it go at that?
For instance, can you describe accurately
the faces of five good friends? Some of you can, but many cannot. As an experiment, I have questioned husbands of long standing
about the color of their wives' eyes, and often they express embarrassed confusion and admit that they do not know. And, incidentally,
it is a chronic complaint of wives that their husbands do not notice new dresses, new hats, and changes in household arrangements.
The eyes of seeing persons soon become accustomed to the routine of their surroundings, and they actually see only
the startling and spectacular. But even in viewing the most spectacular sights the eyes are lazy. Court records reveal every
day how inaccurately "eyewitnesses" see. A given event will be "seen" in several different ways by as
many witnesses. Some see more than others, but few see everything that is within the range of their vision.
the things that I should see if I had the power of sight for just three days!
The first day would be a busy one.
I should call to me all my dear friends and look long into their faces, imprinting upon my mind the outward evidences of the
beauty that is within them. I should let my eyes rest, too, on the face of a baby, so that I could catch a vision of the eager,
innocent beauty which precedes the individual's consciousness of the conflicts which life develops.
And I should
like to look into the loyal, trusting eyes of my dogs -- the grave, canny little Scottie, Darkie, and the stalwart, understanding
Great Dane, Helga, whose warm, tender, and playful friendships are so comforting to me.
On that busy first day
I should also view the small simple things of my home. I want to see the warm colors in the rugs under my feet, the pictures
on the walls, the intimate trifles that transform a house into home. My eyes would rest respectfully on the books in raised
type which I have read, but they would be more eagerly interested in the printed books which seeing people can read, for during
the long night of my life the books I have read and those which have been read to me have built themselves into a great shining
lighthouse, revealing to me the deepest channels of human life and the human spirit.
In the afternoon of that
first seeing day, I should take a long walk in the woods and intoxicate my eyes on the beauties of the world of Nature, trying
desperately to absorb in a few hours the vast splendor which is constantly unfolding itself to those who can see. On the way
home from my woodland jaunt my path would lie near a farm so that I might see the patient horses ploughing in the field (perhaps
I should see only a tractor!) and the serene content of men living close to the soil. And I should pray for the glory of a
When dusk had fallen, I should experience the double delight of being able to see by artificial
light, which the genius of man has created to extend the power of his sight when Nature decrees darkness.
the night of that first day of sight, I should not be able to sleep, so full would be my mind of the memories of the day.
next day -- the second day of sight -- I should arise with the dawn and see the thrilling miracle by which night is transformed
into day. I should behold with awe the magnificent panorama of light with which the sun awakens the sleeping earth.
This day I should devote to a hasty glimpse of the world, past and present. I should want to see the pageant of man's
progress, the kaleidoscope of the ages. How can so much be compressed into one day? Through the museums, of course. Often
I have visited the New York Museum of Natural History to touch with my hands many of the objects there exhibited, but I have
longed to see with my eyes the condensed history of the earth and its inhabitants displayed there -- animals and the races
of men pictured in their native environment; gigantic carcasses of dinosaurs and mastodons which roamed the earth long before
man appeared, with his tiny stature and powerful brain, to conquer the animal kingdom; realistic presentations of the processes
of evolution in animals, in man, and in the implements which man has used to fashion for himself a secure home on this planet;
and a thousand and one other aspects of natural history.
I wonder how many readers of this article have viewed
this panorama of the face of living things as pictured in that inspiring museum. Many, of course, have not had the opportunity,
but I am sure that many who have had the opportunity have not made use of it. There, indeed, is a place
to use your eyes. You who see can spend many fruitful days there, but I, with my imaginary three days of sight, could only
take a hasty glimpse, and pass on.
My next stop would be the Metropolitan Museum of Art, for just as the Museum
of Natural History reveals the material aspects of the world, so does the Metropolitan show the myriad facets of the human
spirit. Throughout the history of humanity the urge to artistic expression has been almost as powerful as the urge for food,
shelter, and procreation. And here, in the vast chambers of the Metropolitan Museum, is unfolded before me the spirit of Egypt,
Greece, and Rome, as expressed in their art. I know well through my hands the sculptured gods and goddesses of the ancient
Nile land. I have felt copies of Parthenon friezes, and I have sensed the rhythmic beauty of charging Athenian warriors. Apollos
and Venuses and the Winged Victory of Samothrace are friends of my finger tips. The gnarled, bearded features of Homer are
dear to me, for he, too, knew blindness.
My hands have lingered upon the living marble of Roman sculpture as
well as that of later generations. I have passed my hands over a plaster cast of Michelangelo's inspiring and heroic Moses;
I have sensed the power of Rodin; I have been awed by the devoted spirit of Gothic wood carving. These arts which can be touched
have meaning for me, but even they were meant to be seen rather than felt, and I can only guess at the beauty which remains
hidden from me. I can admire the simple lines of a Greek vase, but its figured decorations are lost to me.
on this, my second day of sight, I should try to probe into the soul of man through his art. The things I knew through touch
I should now see. More splendid still, the whole magnificent world of painting would be opened to me, from the Italian Primitives,
with their serene religious devotion, to the Moderns, with their feverish visions. I should look deep into the canvases of
Raphael, Leonardo da Vinci, Titian, Rembrandt. I should want to feast my eyes upon the warm colors of Veronese, study the
mysteries of El Greco, catch a new vision of Nature from Corot. Oh, there is so much rich meaning and beauty in the art of
the ages for you who have eyes to see!
Upon my short visit to this temple of art I should not be able to review
a fraction of that great world of art which is open to you. I should be able to get only a superficial impression. Artists
tell me that for a deep and true appreciation of art one must educate the eye. One must learn through experience to weigh
the merits of line, of composition, of form and color. If I had eyes, how happily would I embark upon so fascinating a study!
Yet I am told that, to many of you who have eyes to see, the world of art is a dark night, unexplored and unilluminated.
It would be with extreme reluctance that I should leave the Metropolitan Museum, which contains the key to beauty
-- a beauty so neglected. Seeing persons, however, do not need a Metropolitan to find this key to beauty. The same key lies
waiting in smaller museums, and in books on the shelves of even small libraries. But naturally, in my limited time of imaginary
sight, I should choose the place where the key unlocks the greatest treasures in the shortest time.
of my second day of sight I should spend at a theatre or at the movies. Even now I often attend theatrical performances of
all sorts, but the action of the play must be spelled into my hand by a companion. But how I should like to see with my own
eyes the fascinating figure of Hamlet, or the gusty Falstaff amid colorful Elizabethan trappings! How I should like to follow
each movement of the graceful Hamlet, each strut of the hearty Falstaff! And since I could see only one play, I should be
confronted by a many-horned dilemma, for there are scores of plays I should want to see. You who have eyes can see any you
like. How many of you, I wonder, when you gaze at a play, a movie, or any spectacle, realize and give thanks for the miracle
of sight which enables you to enjoy its color, grace, and movement?
I cannot enjoy the beauty of rhythmic movement
except in a sphere restricted to the touch of my hands. I can vision only dimly the grace of a Pavlowa, although I know something
of the delight of rhythm, for often I can sense the beat of music as it vibrates through the floor. I can well imagine that
cadenced motion must be one of the most pleasing sights in the world. I have been able to gather something of this by tracing
with my fingers the lines in sculptured marble; if this static grace can be so lovely, how much more acute must be the thrill
of seeing grace in motion.
One of my dearest memories is of the time when Joseph Jefferson allowed me to touch
his face and hands as he went through some of the gestures and speeches of his beloved Rip Van Winkle. I was able to catch
thus a meagre glimpse of the world of drama, and I shall never forget the delight of that moment. But, oh, how much I must
miss, and how much pleasure you seeing ones can derive from watching and hearing the interplay of speech and movement in the
unfolding of a dramatic performance! If I could see only one play, I should know how to picture in my mind the action of a
hundred plays which I have read or had transferred to me through the medium of the manual alphabet.
the evening of my second imaginary day of sight, the great figures of dramatic literature would crowd sleep from my eyes.
The following morning, I should again greet the dawn, anxious to discover new delights, for
I am sure that, for those who have eyes which really see, the dawn of each day must be a perpetually new revelation of beauty.
This, according to the terms of my imagined miracle, is to be my third and last day of sight. I shall have no time
to waste in regrets or longings; there is too much to see. The first day I devoted to my friends, animate and inanimate. The
second revealed to me the history of man and Nature. Today I shall spend in the workaday world of the present, amid the haunts
of men going about the business of life. And where can one find so many activities and conditions of men as in New York? So
the city becomes my destination.
I start from my home in the quiet little suburb of Forest Hills, Long Island.
Here, surrounded by green lawns, trees, and flowers, are neat little houses, happy with the voices and movements of wives
and children, havens of peaceful rest for men who toil in the city. I drive across the lacy structure of steel which spans
the East River, and I get a new and startling vision of the power and ingenuity of the mind of man. Busy boats chug and scurry
about the river -- racy speed boats, stolid, snorting tugs. If I had long days of sight ahead, I should spend many of them
watching the delightful activity upon the river.
I look ahead, and before me rise the fantastic towers of New
York, a city that seems to have stepped from the pages of a fairy story. What an awe-inspiring sight, these glittering spires,
these vast banks of stone and steel -- structures such as the gods might build for themselves! This animated picture is a
part of the lives of millions of people every day. How many, I wonder, give it so much as a second glance? Very few, I fear.
Their eyes are blind to this magnificent sight because it is so familiar to them.
I hurry to the top of one of
those gigantic structures, the Empire State Building, for there, a short time ago, I "saw" the city below through
the eyes of my secretary. I am anxious to compare my fancy with reality. I am sure I should not be disappointed in the panorama
spread out before me, for to me it would be a vision of another world.
Now I begin my rounds of the city. First,
I stand at a busy corner, merely looking at people, trying by sight of them to understand something of their lives. I see
smiles, and I am happy. I see serious determination, and I am proud. I see suffering, and I am compassionate.
I stroll down Fifth Avenue. I throw my eyes out of focus, so that I see no particular object but only a seething kaleidoscope
of color. I am certain that the colors of women's dresses moving in a throng must be a gorgeous spectacle of which I should
never tire. But perhaps if I had sight I should be like most other women -- too interested in styles and the cut of individual
dresses to give much attention to the splendor of color in the mass. And I am convinced, too, that I should become an inveterate
window shopper, for it must be a delight to the eye to view the myriad articles of beauty on display.
Avenue I make a tour of the city -- to Park Avenue, to the slums, to factories, to parks where children play. I take a stay-at-home
trip abroad by visiting the foreign quarters. Always my eyes are open wide to all the sights of both happiness and misery
so that I may probe deep and add to my understanding of how people work and live. My heart is full of the images of people
and things. My eye passes lightly over no single trifle; it strives to touch and hold closely each thing its gaze rests upon.
Some sights are pleasant, filling the heart with happiness; but some are miserably pathetic. To these latter I do not shut
my eyes, for they, too, are part of life. To close the eye on them is to close the heart and mind.
My third day
of sight is drawing to an end. Perhaps there are many serious pursuits to which I should devote the few remaining hours, but
I am afraid that on the evening of that last day I should again run away to the theatre, to a hilariously funny play, so that
I might appreciate the overtones of comedy in the human spirit.
my temporary respite from blindness would cease, and permanent night would close in on me again. Naturally in those three
short days I should not have seen all I wanted to see. Only when darkness had again descended upon me should I realize how
much I had left unseen. But my mind would be so crowded with glorious memories that I should have little time for regrets.
Thereafter the touch of every object would bring a glowing memory of how that object looked.
Perhaps this short
outline of how I should spend three days of sight does not agree with the programme you would set for yourself if you knew
that you were about to be stricken blind. I am, however, sure that if you actually faced that fate your eyes would open to
things you had never seen before, storing up memories for the long night ahead. You would use your eyes as never before. Everything
you saw would become dear to you. Your eyes would touch and embrace every object that came within your range of vision. Then,
at last, you would really see, and a new world of beauty would open itself before you.
I who am blind can
give one hint to those who see -- one admonition to those who would make full use of the gift of sight: Use your eyes as if
tomorrow you would be stricken blind. And the same method can be applied to the other
senses. Hear the music of voices, the song of a bird, the mighty strains of an orchestra, as if you would be stricken deaf
tomorrow. Touch each object you want to touch as if tomorrow
your tactile sense would fail. Smell the perfume of flowers, taste with relish each morsel, as if tomorrow
you could never smell and taste again. Make the most of every sense; glory in all the facets of pleasure and beauty which
the world reveals to you through the several means of contact which Nature provides. But of all the senses, I am sure that
sight must be the most delightful.
Pope Francis list
1. Don't gossip.
It's one of our hobbies.
For Francis, it's also one of the most evil activities. The Catholic leader denounces gossip as “murder.”
He feels so strongly about
it that in less than a year as pontiff, Francis has preached against gossip in at least 6 different instances.
He says when we gossip, we “are doing what Judas did,” and “begin to
tear the other person to pieces.” “Every time we judge our brother
in our hearts or worse when we speak badly of them with others, we are murdering Christians,” Francis says. “There
is no such thing as innocent slander.”
2. Finish your meals.
Nearly 870 million people suffer from chronic malnutrition. The
Pope says: “We should all remember... that throwing food away is like stealing from the tables of the poor, the hungry!
I encourage everyone to reflect on the problem of thrown away and wasted food to identify ways and means that, by seriously
addressing this issue, are a vehicle of solidarity and sharing with the needy.”
3. Make time for others.
Tending to 1.2 billion members, Francis seems too busy for anything else.
until he calls up strangers. Or entertains a random biker Or sends a handwritten letter to a Jesuit he has never met.
The Jesuit who got the letter, Fr James Martin, says Francis inspires him “to be
more generous in my own life with my time.”
Martin says: “If the
Pope can find time to be kind to others, if he can pause to say thank you, if he can take a moment tomake someone feel appreciated, then so can I. So can we.”
4. Choose the 'more humble' purchase.
Take it from the head of state who rides a 29-year-old Renault.
In July, he warns against luxurious lives that seek “the joy of the world in the
latest smartphone, the fastest car.” “Cars are necessary,” he says, “but take a more humble one. Think
of how many children die of hunger and dedicate the savings to them.”
The Pope preaches against materialism. “Certainly, possessions, money, and power can give a momentary thrill,
the illusion of being happy, but they end up possessing us and making us always want to have more, never satisfied. ‘Put
on Christ’ in your life, place your trust in him, and you will never be disappointed!”
the poor 'in the flesh.'
Sure, we donate to charity.
But this is not enough for Francis. Commitment to the poor, he says, must be “person to person, in the flesh.”
“It is not enough to mediate this commitment through institutions, which obviously help because they have a multiplying
effect, but that is not enough. They do not excuse us from our establishing personal contact with the needy. The sick must
be cared for, even when we find them repulsive and repugnant. Those in prison must be visited.”
He calls for long-term commitment. “Hospitality in itself isn't enough. It's not enough to give a sandwich if
it isn't accompanied by the possibility of learning to stand on one’s own feet. Charity that does not change the situation
of the poor isn't enough.”
6. Stop judging others.
In the same way he denounces
gossip, Francis condemns prejudice.
He reminds “intolerant” Catholics,
for one, to respect atheists. “If we, each doing our own part, if we do good to others, if we meet there, doing good,
and we go slowly, gently, little by little, we will make that culture of encounter: we need that so much. We must meet one
another doing good.”
He also says of gays: “If someone is gay and seeks the Lord
with good will, who am I to judge?” Francis urges us “to keep watch over ourselves.” “Let us not forget
that hatred, envy, and pride defile our lives!”
7. Befriend those who disagree.
What can we do to our worst
critics? We can take our cue from Francis.
In November, Francis surprises
Mario Palmaro, a traditionalist who wrote the article, 'The Reason Why We Don't Like This Pope.'” “He just wanted
to tell me that he is praying for me,” says Palmaro who is gravely ill, in an article by the Catholic News Agency.
Francis does this in line with what he calls a “culture of encounter.”
He says in July: “When leaders in various fields ask me for advice, my response is always the same: dialogue,
dialogue, dialogue. It is the only way for individuals, families, and societies to grow, the only way for the life of peoples
to progress, along with the culture of encounter, a culture in which all have something good to give and all can receive something
good in return. Others always have something to give me, if we know how to approach them in a spirit of openness and without
8. Make commitments, such as marriage.
Don't be afraid to say “forever.”
Francis advises the youth, for instance, not to fear marriage. The Pope says: “Today, there are those who say that marriage
is out of fashion; in a culture of relativism and the ephemeral, many preach the importance of ‘enjoying’ the
moment. They say that it is not worth making a life-long commitment, making a definitive decision, ‘forever,’
because we do not know what tomorrow will bring.”
“I ask you, instead,
to be revolutionaries, to swim against the tide; yes, I am asking you to rebel against this culture that sees everything as
temporary and that ultimately believes that you are incapable of responsibility, that you are incapable of true love. I have
confidence in you and I pray for you. Have the courage ‘to swim against the tide.’ Have the courage to be happy,”
9. Make it a habit to 'ask the Lord.'
Bothered about the future? Pray, the Pope
urges us especially the youth.
“Dear young people,” he says,
“some of you may not yet know what you will do with your lives. Ask the Lord, and he will show you the way. You too
can ask the Lord: What do you want me to do? What path am I to follow?”
10. Be happy.
The true Christian, says the Pope, exudes great joy. He says keeping this joy to ourselves “will make us sick
in the end. Francis says in a homily. “Joy cannot be held at heel: it must
be let go. Joy is a pilgrim virtue. It is a gift that walks, walks on the path of life, that walks with Jesus: preaching,
proclaiming Jesus, proclaiming joy, lengthens and widens that path.”
Francis says, “The Christian
sings with joy, and walks, and carries this joy." This joy, he reminds us, should translate to love of neighbor.._
Forwarded by J. Justin
Everyday is important since you are exchanging every day of your life for it
Make someone else smile. – Ordinary people worry today and postpone their happiness for tomorrow. Intelligent people are happy today and postpone their worries for tomorrow. Wise people only wish happiness for all, today and tomorrow.
If you wish to have a lifetime of happiness, dedicate time every day to helping others smile with complete sincerity and enthusiasm.
Be imperfect. – Something that is really difficult, but totally worth it, is giving up on being perfect
and beginning the journey of becoming your true self. The most beautiful part of this journey is simply returning to
the peaceful feeling of being. This peace is the result of retraining your mind to process life as it is, rather than
as you think it should be.
Be enthusiastic about what you’re doing. – You’re not given
a good life or a bad life. You’re given life, and it’s up to you to make it good or bad. So wake up
and get motivated; not everybody made it to today. Don’t take your time for granted. Don’t waste time
thinking back to what you could have done differently yesterday. Keep your eyes on the road ahead and do it differently
today. Wherever the road takes you, bring your passion. Whatever you do along the way, do it with all your heart.
Make the best of what happens. – More important than what happens to you, is what you make of what happens
to you. The more thankful you are, the more beautiful this world appears. You must uncover the good in the bad,
the happy in your sad, the gain in your pain, and what makes you grateful not hateful.
Forgive your past self.
– Sometimes, good people like you make bad choices. It doesn’t mean you’re bad; it means you’re
human. So get bored with your past; it’s over. Forgive yourself for what you think you did or didn’t
do, and focus on what you will do starting now.
Spend some time simply being and breathing. – The
only way to live happily ever after is one day at a time. Just be, breathe, and think not about what you’re missing,
but what you’ve been given. Happiness is something that comes into our lives gradually through the doors we don’t
even remember leaving open.
Learn something new. – It’s important to remember that you cannot
become who you are capable of being by remaining exactly where you are. If you are not willing to learn and grow, no
one can help you. But if you are determined to learn and grow, no one can stop you. In the end, there are no permanent
jobs on this planet; we are all interning here. Learn from everyone, evolve, remain humble, and don’t forget to
have a good time.
Look in the mirror, and tell yourself what you love about yourself. – What we see
in the mirror is what we see in the world. Our disappointment in others perfectly reflects our disappointment in ourselves.
Our acceptance of others perfectly reflects our acceptance of ourselves. Our ability to see potential in others perfectly
reflects our ability to see potential in ourselves. Our patience with others perfectly reflects our patience with ourselves.
You get the idea – you’ve got to show yourself some love first.
Focus on the qualities you like
about those around you. – Whenever we focus on a person’s wonderful qualities, we have a wonderful relationship
with them. Whenever we focus on a person’s not so wonderful qualities, we have a not so wonderful relationship
with them. What we focus on grows in our minds and hearts.
Say “yes” to a spontaneous opportunity.
– Everything in life can’t be planned. Some of the greatest opportunities will knock on your door when you
least expect them to. Be flexible, be spontaneous, and just say “yes.”
Appreciate the great people and things in your life
Sometimes we don’t notice the things others do for us
until they stop doing them. Don’t be like that. Be grateful for what you have,
who loves you, and who cares for you. You’ll never know how much they mean to you until the day they’re
no longer beside you. Truly appreciate those around you, and you’ll soon find many others around
you. Truly appreciate life, and you’ll find that you have more of it to live.
Ignore other people’s negativity
If you allow people to make more withdrawals
than deposits in your life, you will be out of balance and in the negative before you know it. Ignore unconstructive,
hurtful commentary. No one has the right to judge you. They may have heard your stories,
but they didn’t feel what you were going through. You do not have control over what others say; but
you do have control over whether or not you allow them to say these things to you. You alone can deny their
poisonous words from invading your heart and mind.
Forgive those who have hurt you
I forgive people, but that doesn’t mean I trust them. I just
don’t have time to hate people who hurt me, because I’m too busy loving people who love me. The
first to apologize is the bravest. The first to forgive is the strongest. The first
to move forward is the happiest. Be brave. Be strong. Be happy.
who you really are
you’re lucky enough to have something that makes you different from everybody else, don’t change.
Uniqueness is priceless. In this crazy world that’s trying to make you like everyone else,
find the courage to keep being your awesome self. And when they laugh at you for being different, laugh
back at them for being the same. It takes a lot of courage to stand alone, but it’s worth it.
Being YOU is worth it!
Choose to listen to your inner voice
Life is a courageous journey or nothing at all. We cannot become who we want to be by
continuing to do exactly what we’ve been doing. Choose to listen to your inner voice, not the jumbled
opinions of everyone else. Do what you know in your heart is right for YOU. It’s
your road, and yours alone. Others may walk it with you, but no one can walk it for you. And
be sure to appreciate every day of your life. Good days give you happiness, bad days give you experience,
and the worst days give you the best lessons.
Embrace change and enjoy your life as it unfolds
The hardest part about growing is letting go of what you were used to,
and moving on with something you’re not. Sometimes you have to stop worrying, wondering, and doubting,
and have faith that things will work out. Laugh at the confusion, live consciously in the moment, and enjoy
your life as it unfolds. You might not end up exactly where you intended to go, but eventually you will
arrive precisely where you need to be.
Choose your relationships wisely
The best relationships are not just about the good times you share, they’re also about the obstacles
you go through together, and the fact that you still say “I love you” in the end. And loving
someone isn’t just about saying it every day, it’s showing it every day in every way. Relationships
must be chosen wisely. Don’t rush love. Wait until you truly find it.
Don’t let loneliness drive you back into the arms of someone you know you don’t belong with.
Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely. A great relationship is worth
those who love you
most memorable people in your life will be the ones who loved you when you weren’t very loveable. Pay
attention to who these people are in your life, and love them back, even when they aren’t acting loveable.
Love yourself too
If you can love children, in spite of the messes
they make; your mother, in spite of her tendency to nag; your father, even though he’s too opinionated; your sibling,
even though she’s always late; your friend, even though he often forgets to return what he borrows, then you know how
to love imperfect people, and can surely love yourself.
Do things your future self will thank you for
What you do every day matters more than what you do every once in a while.
What you do today is important because you are exchanging a day of your life for it. Make sure it’s
for all the troubles you don’t have
There are two ways of being rich: One is to have all you want, the other is to be satisfied with what you
have. Accept and appreciate things now, and you’ll find more happiness in every moment you live.
Happiness comes when we stop complaining about the troubles we have and offer thanks for all the troubles we don’t
have. And remember, you have to fight through some bad days to earn the best days of your life.
Leave enough time for fun
Sometimes you need to take a few steps back
to see things clearly. Never let your life become so filled with work, your mind become so crammed with
worry, or your heart become so jammed with old hurts or anger, that there’s no room left in them for fun, for awe, or
little things in life
best things in life are free. There is absolute joy and wonder to be had in the simplest of moments.
Watching the sunset over the horizon or spending time with a family member. Enjoy the little things, because one day
you may look back and discover they were the big things.
Accept the fact that the past in not today
Don’t let the past steal your present and future from you. You
might not be proud of all the things you’ve done in the past, but that’s okay. The past is
not today. The past cannot be changed, forgotten, or erased. It can only be accepted.
We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our past. But you are not your mistakes,
you are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day and your future.
Let go when you must
not always about trying to fix something that’s broken. Some relationships and situations just can’t
be fixed. If you try to force them back together, things will only get worse. Sometimes
it’s about starting over and creating something better. Strength shows not only in the ability to
persist, but in the ability to start over again with a smile on your face and passion in your heart.__________________________________________________________
Stay away from Anger.
It hurts only You and nobody else.
If you are right,
then there is no need to get angry,
and if you are wrong then you don't have any right to get angry.
Patience with family is love,
Patience with others is respect,
Patience with self is confidence and
Patience with GOD is faith.
Never think hard about the past,
it brings tears.
Don't think more about the future, it brings fear.
Live this moment with a Smile, it brings cheer.
test in our life makes us bitter or better,
Every problem comes to make us or break us,
The choice is ours whether
we become victims or victorious.
Search for a beautiful heart not a beautiful face.
Beautiful things are not always good,
but good things are always beautiful.
Do you know why God created gaps between fingers?
So that someone who is special to you
and fills those gaps by holding your hand forever.
Never forget this advice!
Happiness keeps You Sweet,
Trials keep You
Success keeps You Glowing,
But Only God keeps You Going!
GOD LIVES UNDER THE BED
I envy Kevin. My brother, Kevin, thinks God lives under his bed.
At least that's what I heard him say one night.
He was praying out loud in his dark bedroom, and I stopped to listen, 'Are you there,
God?' he said. 'Where are you? Oh, I see. Under the bed....'
I giggled softly and tiptoed off to my own room. Kevin's unique perspectives
are often a source of amusement. But that night something else lingered long after the humor. I realized for the first time
the very different world Kevin lives in.
He was born 30 years ago, mentally disabled as a result of difficulties during labor. Apart from his
size (he's 6-foot-2), there are few ways in which he is an adult.
He reasons and communicates with the capabilities of a 7-year-old,
and he always will. He will probably always believe that God lives under his bed, that Santa Claus is the one who fills the
space under our tree every Christmas and that airplanes stay up in the sky because angels carry them.
I remember wondering if
Kevin realizes he is different. Is he ever dissatisfied with his monotonous life?
Up before dawn each day, off to work at a
workshop for the disabled, home to walk our cocker spaniel, return to eat his favorite macaroni-and-cheese for dinner, and
later to bed.
The only variation in the entire scheme is laundry, when he hovers excitedly over the washing machine like a mother
with her newborn child.
He does not seem dissatisfied.
He lopes out to the bus every morning at 7:05, eager for a day of simple work.
He wrings his hands excitedly
while the water boils on the stove before dinner, and he stays up late twice a week to gather our dirty laundry for his next
day's laundry chores.
And Saturdays - oh, the bliss of Saturdays! That's the day my Dad takes Kevin to the airport to have a soft drink,
watch the planes land, and speculate loudly on the destination of each passenger inside. 'That one's goin' to Chi-car-go!
' Kevin shouts as he claps his hands.
anticipation is so great he can hardly sleep on Friday nights.
And so goes his world of daily rituals and weekend field trips.
He doesn't know what it
means to be discontent.
His life is simple.
He will never know the entanglements of wealth or power, and he does not care what brand of clothing
he wears or what kind of food he eats. His needs have always been met, and he never worries that one day they may not be.
hands are diligent. Kevin is never so happy as when he is working. When he unloads the dishwasher or vacuums the carpet, his
heart is completely in it.
He does not shrink from a job when it is begun, and he does not leave a job until it is finished. But
when his tasks are done, Kevin knows how to relax.
He is not obsessed with his work or the work of others. His heart is pure.
He still believes everyone
tells the truth, promises must be kept, and when you are wrong, you apologize instead of argue.
Free from pride and unconcerned with appearances,
Kevin is not afraid to cry when he is hurt, angry or sorry. He is always transparent, always sincere. And he trusts God.
Not confined by intellectual
reasoning, when he comes to Christ, he comes as a child. Kevin seems to know God - to really be friends with Him in a way
that is difficult for an 'educated' person to grasp. God seems like his closest companion.
In my moments of doubt and frustrations with
my Christianity, I envy the security Kevin has in his simple faith.
It is then that I am most willing to admit that he has some
divine knowledge that rises above my mortal questions.
It is then I realize that perhaps he is not the one with the handicap. I am. My
obligations, my fear, my pride, my circumstances - they all become disabilities when I do not trust them to God's care.
Who knows if Kevin comprehends
things I can never learn? After all, he has spent his whole life in that kind of innocence, praying after dark and soaking
up the goodness and love of God.
And one day, when the mysteries of heaven are opened, and we are all amazed at how close God really
is to our hearts, I'll realize that God heard the simple prayers of a boy who believed that God lived under his bed.
Kevin won't be surprised
at all !
A nurse took the tired, anxious serviceman to the bedside. "Your son is here," she said to
the old man. She had to repeat the words several times before the patient's eyes opened.
Heavily sedated because
of the pain of his heart attack, he dimly saw the young uniformed Marine standing outside the oxygen tent. He reached out
his hand. The Marine wrapped his toughened fingers around the old man's limp ones, squeezing a message of love and encouragement.
The nurse brought a chair so that the Marine could sit beside the bed. All through the night the young Marine sat
there in the poorly lighted ward, holding the old man's hand and offering him words of love and strength. Occasionally, the
nurse suggested that the Marine move away and rest awhile.
He refused. Whenever the nurse came into the ward, the Marine was
oblivious of her and of the night noises of the hospital - the clanking of the oxygen tank, the laughter of the night staff
members exchanging greetings, the cries and moans of the other patients.
Now and then she heard him say a few gentle
words. The dying man said nothing, only held tightly to his son all through the night. Along towards dawn, the old man died.
The Marine released the now lifeless hand he had been holding and went to tell the nurse. While she did what she had to do,
she returned. She started to offer words of sympathy, but the Marine interrupted her. "Who was that man?" he asked.
The nurse was startled, "He was your father," she answered. "No, he wasn't," the Marine replied. "I
never saw him before in my life."
why didn't you say something when I took you to him?"
"I knew right away there had been a mistake,
but I also knew he needed his son, and his son just wasn't here. When I realized that he was too sick to tell whether or not
I was his son, knowing how much he needed me, I stayed."
I came here tonight to find a Mr. William Grey. His Son was Killed in Iraq today, and I was sent to inform him. What was
this Gentleman's Name?
The Nurse with Tears in Her Eyes Answered,
Mr. William Grey.............
The next time someone needs you ... just be there. Stay.
WE ARE NOT HUMAN BEINGS GOING THROUGH A TEMPORARY SPIRITUAL EXPERIENCE.
WE ARE SPIRITUAL BEINGS GOING THROUGH
A TEMPORARY HUMAN EXPERIENCE.
A Prayer as one grows
knows better than I know myself that I am growing older and will someday be old. Keep me from the fatal
habit of thinking I must say something on every subject and on every occasion.
Release me from craving to straighten out everybody’s affairs.
Make me thoughtful but not moody, helpful but not bossy.
With my vast store of wisdom it seem a pity not to use it all, but thou know Lord,
that I want a few friends at the end.
Keep my mind free from the recital of endless details; give me wings to get to the point. Seal
my lips on my aches and pains. They are increasing and love of rehearsing them is becoming sweeter as the
years go by. I dare not ask for grace enough to enjoy the tales of others pains, but help me to endure
them with patience.
do not ask for improved memory, but for growing humility and a lessening cocksureness when my memory seems
to clash with the memories of others. Teach me the glorious lesson the occasionally I may be mistaken.
Keep me reasonably sweet;
I do not want to be a saint – some of them are so hard to live with – but a sour old person is one of the crowning
works of the devil. Give me the ability to see good things in unexpected places, and talents in unexpected
people. And give me, O Lord the grace to tell them so. Amen
IT'S WHAT YOU SCATTER
I was at the corner
grocery store buying some early potatoes... I noticed a small boy, delicate of bone and feature, ragged but clean, hungrily
appraising a basket of freshly picked green peas.
I paid for my potatoes but was also drawn to the display of fresh
green peas. I am a pushover for creamed peas and new potatoes.
Pondering the peas, I couldn't help overhearing
the conversation between Mr. Miller (the store owner) and the ragged boy next to me.
'Hello Barry, how
are you today?'
'H'lo, Mr. Miller. Fine, thank ya. Jus' admirin' them peas. They sure look good'
'They are good, Barry.
How's your Ma?'
'Fine. Gittin' stronger alla' time.'
'Good. Anything I can help you with?'
'No, Sir. Jus' admirin'
'Would you like to take some home?' asked Mr. Miller.
'No, Sir. Got nuthin' to pay for 'em with.'
'Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?'
'All I got's my prize marble here.'
that right? Let me see it', said Miller...
'Here 'tis. She's a dandy.'
'I can see that. Hmm
mmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort of go for red. Do you have a red one like this at home?' the store owner asked.
zackley but almost.'
'Tell you what. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip this way let me look at
that red marble'. Mr. Miller told the boy.
'Sure will. Thanks Mr. Miller.'
who had been standing nearby, came over to help me.
With a smile she said, 'There are two other boys like him
in our community, all three are in very poor circumstances. Jim just loves to bargain with them for peas, apples, tomatoes,
When they come back with their red marbles, and they always do, he decides he doesn't like red after all
and he sends them home with a bag of produce for a green marble or an orange one, when they come on their next trip to the
I left the store smiling to myself, impressed with this man. A short time later I moved to Colorado , but
I never forgot the story of this man, the boys, and their bartering for marbles.
Several years went by, each more rapid than
the previous one. Just recently I had occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho community and while I was there learned
that Mr. Miller had died. They were having his visitation that evening and knowing my friends wanted to go, I agreed to accompany
them. Upon arrival at the mortuary we fell into line to meet the relatives of the deceased and to offer whatever words of
comfort we could.
Ahead of us in line were three young men. One was in an army uniform and the other two wore nice haircuts,
dark suits and white shirts...all very professional looking. They approached Mrs. Miller, standing composed and smiling by
her husband's casket.
Each of the young men hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly with her
and moved on to the casket. Her misty light blue eyes followed them as, one by one; each young man stopped briefly and placed
his own warm hand over the cold pale hand in the casket. Each left the mortuary awkwardly, wiping his eyes.
turn came to meet Mrs. Miller. I told her who I was and reminded her of the story from those many years ago and what she had
told me about her husband's bartering for marbles. With her eyes glistening, she took my hand and led me to the casket.
'Those three young men who just left were the boys I told you about.
They just told me how they appreciated
the things Jim 'traded' them. Now, at last, when Jim could not change his mind about color or size....they came to pay their
'We've never had a great deal of the wealth of this world,' she confided, 'but right now, Jim would consider
himself the richest man in Idaho...'
With loving gentleness she lifted the lifeless fingers of her deceased husband.
Resting underneath were three exquisitely shined red marbles.
We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds. Life is not measured by the
breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath.
IT'S NOT WHAT YOU GATHER, BUT WHAT YOU SCATTER THAT TELLS WHAT KIND OF LIFE YOU HAVE LIVED!
"The Four Lovers"
Once upon a time there was a Queen who had four lovers.
loved the 4th lover the most and adorned him with rich robes and treated him to the finest of delicacies. She gave him nothing
but the Best.
She also loved the 3rd lover
very much and was always showing him off to neighboring kingdoms.
However, she feared that one day he would leave her for another.
She also loved her 2nd lover. He was her confidant
and was always kind, considerate and patient with her. Whenever the Queen faced a problem, she could confide in him, and he would help her get through the difficult times.
Queen's 1st lover was a very loyal partner and had made great
contributions in maintaining her wealth and kingdom. However, she did not love the first lover.
Although he loved her deeply, she hardly took notice of him.
the Queen fell ill and she knew her time was short. She thought of her luxurious life
and wondered, I now have four lovers with me, but when I die, I'll be all alone.
she asked the 4th lover, "I loved you the most! , endowed you
with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying, will you follow
me and keep me company?" 'No way!' replied the 4th lover, and he walked away without another word. His answer cut like a sharp knife right into her heart.
sad Queen then asked the 3rd lover, "I loved you all my life. Now that I'm
dying, will you follow me and keep me company?" 'No!' replied the 3rd lover. 'Life is too good! When
you die, I'm going to love someone else!' Her heart sank and turned cold.
She then asked the 2nd lover, "I
have always turned to you for help and you've always been there
for me. When
I die, will you follow me and keep me company?"
I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!' replied the 2nd lover.
'At the very most, I can only walk with you to your grave.' His answer struck her like a bolt of lightning, and the Queen was devastated.
a voice called out: 'I'll go with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go.The Queen looked up, and there was her first
lover. He was very skinny as he suffered from malnutrition and neglect. Greatly grieved, the Queen said, "I should
have taken much better care of you when I had the chance!"
In truth, you have 4 lovers in your life:
Your 4th lover is your body. No matter
how much time and effort you lavish in making it look good, it will leave you when you die?
3rd lover is your possessions, status and wealth. When you die, it will all go to others.
Your 2nd lover is your family and friends.
No matter how
much they have been there for you, the furthest they can stay by you is up to the Grave.
your 1st lover is your Soul, often neglected in pursuit of wealth, power and pleasures of the world.
However, your Soul is the only thing that will follow you where ever
you go. Cultivate, strengthen and cherish it now, for it is the only part of you that will follow you to the throne of God
and continue with you throughout Eternity.
and the Bamboo
day I decided to quit..I quit my job, my relationship, my spirituality... I wanted to quit my life. I went to the woods to
have one last talk with God. 'God', I asked, 'Can you give me one good reason not to quit?' His
answer surprised me...
'Look around', He said. 'Do you see the fern and the bamboo?'
'Yes', I replied.
'When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very good care of them. I gave them light. I gave them water. The fern quickly grew from the earth.
Its brilliant green covered the floor. Yet nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo. In the second
year the Fern grew more vibrant and plentiful.
And again, nothing came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the
bamboo. He said. 'In year three there was still nothing from the bamboo seed. But I
would not quit.
In year four, again, there was nothing from the bamboo seed. I would not quit.' He said. 'Then in the
fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth. Compared to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant...But just
6 months later the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall. It had spent the five years growing roots. Those roots made it strong
and gave it what it needed to survive.
I would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle.'
He asked me. 'Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling, you have actually been growing roots'.
'I would not quit on the bamboo. I will never quit on you.' 'Don't compare yourself to others.' He said. 'The bamboo had a
different Purpose than the fern.
Yet they both
make the forest beautiful.' 'Your time will come', God said to me. 'You will rise high' 'How high should I rise?' I asked. 'How high will the bamboo rise?' He asked in return. 'As high as it can?' I questioned. 'Yes.'
He said, 'Give me glory by rising as high as you can.' I left the forest and brought back this story. I hope these words can
help you see that God will never give up on you.
Never, Never, Never Give up. For the Prayer is not an option but an opportunity.
Don't tell God how big the problem is, tell the problem how Great God is!
by Anand Royan
Parable of the Pencil
The Pencil Maker took the pencil aside, just before putting him into
“There are 5 things you need to know,” he told the pencil, “Before I send you out into the
world. Always remember them and never forget, and you will become the best pencil you can be.”
You will be able to do many great things, but only if you allow yourself to be held in someone’s hand.”
You will experience a painful sharpening from time to time, but you’ll need it to become a better pencil.”
“Three: You will be able to correct any mistakes you might make.”
“Four: The most important part
of you will always be what’s inside.”
“And Five: On every surface you are used on, you must leave your
mark. No matter what the condition, you must continue to write.”
The pencil understood and promised to remember,
and went into the box with purpose in its heart.
Now replacing the place of the pencil with you. Always remember
them and never forget, and you will become the best person you can be.
One: You will be able to do many great things,
but only if you allow yourself to be held in God’s hand. And allow other human beings to access you for the many gifts
Two: You will experience a painful sharpening from time to time, by going through various problems in life,
but you’ll need it to become a stronger person.
Three: You will be able to correct any mistakes you might make.
Four: The most important part of you will always be what’s on the inside.
And Five: On every surface you walk
through, you must leave your mark. No matter what the situation, you must continue to do your duties.
Allow this parable
on the pencil to encourage you to know that you are a special person and only you can fulfill the purpose to which you were
born to accomplish.
Never allow yourself to get discouraged and think that your life is insignificant and cannot make
Forwarded by: Mrs. Indira Rodrigo______________________________________________________________________________
Balsheet of life
is our Opening Balance!
Our Death is our Closing Balance!
Our Prejudiced Views are our Liabilities,
Our Creative Ideas are our Assets,
is our Current Asset,
Soul is our Fixed Asset
Brain is our Fixed Deposit
is our Current Account
Achievements are our Capital
Character & Morals, our Stock-in-Trade
Friends are our General Reserves
& Behaviour are our Goodwill
Patience is our Interest Earned
Love is our Dividend
are our Bonus Issues
Education is Brands / Patents
Knowledge is our Investment
is our Premium Account
The Aim is to Tally the Balance Sheet Accurately.
The Goal is to get the Best Presented
New Year Resolutions
- Take time to think; it is the source of power.
- Take time
to study; it is the foundation of wisdom.
- Take time to play; it is the secret of
- Take time to be quiet;it is the opportunity to seek God.
- Take time to laugh; it is the singing of the soul.
- Take time
to dream; it is where the hope for future begins
- Take time to pray; it is the greatest
power on earth.
Dr. Randy Pausch was
a Harvard professor and was in his forties. He died of pancreatic cancer in 2008, but wrote a book ‘The last lecture”,
one of the bestsellers in 2007. In a letter to his wife Jai and his children, Dylan, Logan , and Chloe, he wrote
this beautiful "guide to a better life" for them to follow.
you be blessed by his insight.
POINTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE
1. Don't compare
your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don't have negative
thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment
Don't overdo; keep your limits
4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does
5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip
6. Dream more while you are awake
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner
of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to
waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that
appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
Smile and laugh more
14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
15. Call your family
16. Each day give something good to others
17. Forgive everyone for everything
Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6
19. Try to make at least
three people smile each day
20. What other people think of you is none of your business
Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.
Put GOD first in anything and everything that you think, say and do.
23. GOD heals everything
Do the right things
25. However good or bad a situation is, it will change
No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
27. The best is yet to come
Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful
29. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD
30. If you know GOD you will always be happy. So, be happy.
While you practice all of the above, share this knowledge
with the people you love, people you school with, people you play with, people you work with and people you live
with. Not only will it enrich YOUR life, but also that of those around you.
Forwarded by I Sagraj
A lecturer, when explaining stress management to an audience,
a glass of water and asked;
heavy is this glass of water?'
called out ranged from 20g to 500g.
lecturer replied, 'The absolute weight doesn't matter.
It depends on how long you try to hold it.
If I hold it for a minute, that's not a problem.
If I hold it for an hour, I'll have an ache in my right arm.
If I hold it for a day, you'll have to call an ambulance.
In each case, it's the same weight, but the longer
I hold it, the heavier it becomes.'
'And that's the way it
is with stress management..
carry our burdens all the time, sooner or later,
the burden becomes increasingly heavy,
won't be able to carry on. '
with the glass of water,
to put it down for a while and rest before holding it again.
When we're refreshed, we can carry on with the burden.'
'So, before you return home tonight, put the burden of work down. Don't carry it
home. You can pick it up tomorrow.
burdens you're carrying now,
them down for a moment if you can..'
my friend, Put down anything that may be a burden to you right now. Don't pick it up again until after you've rested a while.
Here are some great ways of dealing with the burdens of life:
* Accept that some days
you're the pigeon,
And some days
you're the statue.
Always keep your words soft and sweet,
in case you have to eat them.
Always wear stuff that will make you look good
you die in the middle of it.
carefully. It's not only cars that can be
by their maker.
you lend someone $20 and never see that person again,
was probably worth it.
It may be that your sole purpose in life is simply to be kind to others.
* Never put both feet in your mouth at the same time,
Because then you won't have a leg to stand on.
* Nobody cares if you can't dance well.
Just get up and dance.
* When everything's coming your way,
You're in the wrong lane.
* You may be only
one person in the world,
may also be the world to one person.
We could learn a lot from crayons... Some are sharp, some are pretty and some are dull. Some have weird names, and all are
different colours, but they all have to live in the same box.
*A truly happy person is one who can enjoy the scenery on a detour.
Three things to govern:
Temper, tongue and conduct.
2. Three things to cultivate:
Courage, affection and gentleness.
3. Three things to commend:
Thrift, industry and promptness.
4. Three things to despise:
Cruelty, arrogance and ingratitude.
5. Three things to wish for:
Health, friends and
6. Three things to admire:
7. Three things to give:
to the needy,comfort to the sick
and thanks to almighty GOD!
Forwarded by Rajam Justin
One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people. He said,
"My son, the battle is between two wolves inside us all.
"One is Evil - It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret,
greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.
"The other is God - It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence,
empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith."
The grandson thought about it for a
minute and then asked his grandfather: "Which
wolf wins?" The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed."
Forwarded by Rajendran
When I woke up this morning lying in bed, I was asking myself; what
are some of the secrets of success in life? I found the answer right there in my room
The fan said……….. be
The Roof said……
The Window said…
See the world
The Clock said…
Every minute is precious
The Mirror said…
Reflect before you act
The Calendar said…
Be up- to- date
The Door said…
Push hard for your goals
By Mrs. Rajam Justin
1. Drink plenty of water
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar
3. Eat more foods
that grow on trees and plants, and eat less food that is manufactured in plants
Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy
5. Make time for prayer
6. Play more games
7. Read more books than you did in 2008
Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day
9. Sleep for 7 hours
10. Take a 10-30 minutes
walk every day ---- and while you walk, smile
11. Don't compare
your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control.
Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do ; keep
14. Don't take yourself so seriously ; no one else does
15. Don't waste your precious energy
16. Dream more while you are awake
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with
his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time
hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it
won't spoil the present
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
22. Realize that life is
a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum
that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
25. Call your family often
Each day give something good to others
27. Forgive everyone for everything
28. Spend time with
people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6
Try to make at least three people smile each day
30. What other people think of you is none of your business
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will.
Stay in touch.
32. Do the right things
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful
34. GOD heals everything
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change
36. No matter
how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
37. The best is yet to come
38. When you awake alive in the
morning, thank GOD for it
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
Forwarded By: Rev. Sr. Fatima Kattar
A Violinist in the Metro
A man sat at a metro station in Washington DC and started to play the violin; it was a cold January
morning.He played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes.During that time, since it was rush hour, it was calculated that thousand
of people went through the station,most of them on their way to work.
Three minutes went by and a middle aged man
noticed there was musician playing. He slowed his pace, stopped for a few seconds and then hurried up to meet his schedule.
A minute later, the violinist received his first dollar tip: a woman threw the money in the till and without stopping continued
to walk. A few minutes later, someone leaned against the wall to listen to him, but the man looked at his watch and started
to walk again. Clearly he was late for work.
The one who paid the most attention was a 3 year old boy. His mother
tagged him along, hurried but the kid stopped to look at the violinist. Finally the mother pushed hard and the child continued
to walk turning his head all the time. This action was repeated by several other children. All the parents, without exception,
forced them to move on.
In the 45 minutes the musician played, only 6 people stopped and stayed for a while. About
20 gave him money but continued to walk their normal pace. He collected $32. When he finished playing and silence took over,
no one noticed it. No one applauded, nor was there any recognition.
No one knew this but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the best musicians in the world.
He played one of the most intricate pieces ever written ; with a violin worth 3.5 million dollars.
Two days before his playing in the subway, Joshua Bell sold out at
a theatre in Boston
and the average ticket was $100.
This is a real story.
Joshua Bell playing incognito in the metro station
was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste and priorities of people.
The outlines were: in a commonplace environment at an inappropriate hour:
Do we perceive beauty?
Do we stop to
Do we recognize the talent in an unexpected context?
One of the possible inferences from this
experience could be:
If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best
musicians in the world playing the best music ever written, how many other things are we missing?
Forwarded by: Prashanth
The Wooden Bowl
I guarantee you will remember the
tale of the Wooden Bowl tomorrow, a week from now, a month from now, a year from now.
A frail old man went to live
with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year old grandson. The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate
together at the table. But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled
off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth.
The son and daughter-in-law
became irritated with the mess. 'We must do something about father,' said the son. 'I've had enough of his
spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor.'
So the husband and wife set a small table in the
corner. There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his
food was served in a wooden bowl.
When the family glanced in Grandfather's direction, sometimes he had
a tear in his eye as he sat alone. Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork
or spilled food.
The four-year-old watched it all in silence.
One evening before supper, the father noticed
his son playing with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, 'What are you making?' Just as sweetly, the
boy responded, 'Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up.
four-year-old smiled and went back to work.
The words so struck the parents so that they were speechless. Then tears started
to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done.
That evening the husband
took Grandfather's hand and gently led him back to the family table. For the remainder of his days he ate every meal
with the family. And for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the
On a positive note, I've learned that, no matter what happens, how bad it seems today, life does go
on, and it will be better tomorrow.
I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she
handles four things: a rainy day, the elderly, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.
that, regardless of your relationship with your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from your life.
learned that making a 'living' is not the same thing as making a 'life.'
I've learned that
life sometimes gives you a second chance.
I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's
mitt on both hands. You need to be able to throw something back I've learned
that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you But, if you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others,
your work and doing the very best you can, happiness will
I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make
the right decision.
I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.
learned that every day, you should reach out and touch someone.
People love that human touch -- holding hands,
a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.
I've learned that I still have a lot to learn.
Forwarded by J.Justin
I have learned
I've learned that, no matter
what happens, how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.
I've learned that, regardless
of your relationship with your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from your life.
learned that making a 'living' is not the same as making a 'life'.
I've learned that life sometimes
gives you a second chance.
I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on
both hands. You need to be able to throw something back.
I've learned that if you pursue happiness, it will
elude you. but, if you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others, your work and doing the very best you can,
happiness will find you.
I've learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the
I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one.
that everyday, you should reach out and touch someone. People love that human touch-- holding hands,a warm
hug, or just a friendly pat on
I've learned that I still have a lot to learn.
I grew up in the 50's with very practical parents. A mother, God love her, who washed aluminium
foil after she cooked in it, then reused it. She was the original recycle queen, before they had a name for it. My father
was happier getting old shoes fixed than buying new ones. Their marriage was good, their dreams Focused. Their best friends
lived barely a wave away. It was time for fixing things. A curtain rod, the kitchen radio, screen door, the oven door, the
hem in a dress. Things we keep. It was a way of life, and sometimes it made me crazy. All that
re-fixing, eating, renewing.
I wanted just once to be wasteful. Waste meant affluence. Throwing things away meant you knew there'd
always be more. But then my mother died, and on that clear summer's night, in the warmth of the hospital room, I was struck
with pain of learning that sometimes there isn't anymore. Sometimes ,what we care about gets all used
up and goes away...never to return. So, while we have it...it's best we love it...and care for it...and fix it when it's
broken... and heal it when it's sick.
This is true for marriage...and old cars... and children with bad report
cards...and dogs with bad hips...and ageing parents...and grandparents. We keep them because they are worth it.. because
we are worth it.
(From the Bulletin of The
Church of Holy Cross )
Forwarded By : Mrs. Rajam Justin
is the philosophy of Charles Schultz, the creator of the 'Peanuts' comic strip. You don't have to actually answer the questions. Just read the e-mail straight
through, and you'll get the point. 1.
Name the five wealthiest people in the world.
2. Name the last five Noble prize winners.
3. Name the last five winners of Miss India .
4. Name the last half dozen Academy Award winners for best actor and actress.
5. Name the last decade's worth of World Series
How did you do?
The point is, none of us remembers the headliners of yesterday.
These are no second-rate achievers. They are the best in their fields. But the applause dies. Awards tarnish. Achievements
are forgotten. Accolades and certificates are buried with their owners .
Here's another quiz. See how you do on this one:
1. List a few teachers who aided your journey through school.
t hree friends who have helped you through a difficult time.
3. Name five people who have taught you something worthwhile.
4. Think of a few people who have made
you feel appreciated and special.
5. Think of five people you enjoy spending time with .
The people who make a difference in your life are not the
ones with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards. They are the ones that care.
Forwarded by Jenson Fernando
Sweet words are easy to say /
Sweet things are easy to buy
But sweet people are difficult to find
Life end when you stop dreaming
ends when you stop believing
Love ends when you stop caring
Frindship ends when you stop sharing
So share To love without condition
To talk without intention
To give without reason
And to care without expectation is the heart
Of a true friend Life
the rules Forgive quick,
Kiss slowly Love truly, Laugh uncontrollably
And never regret anything that made you smile.
by Lucy & Henson
Discover the 90/10 Principle.
It will change your life (at least the way you react to situations). What
is this principle? 10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react.
What does this mean? We really have no control over 10% of what happens to
We cannot stop the car from breaking down.
The plane will be late arriving, which
throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic. We have
no control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%.
How? ……….By your reaction.
You cannot control a red light. but you can control your reaction. Don't let people fool
you; YOU can control how you react. Let's use an example.
You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee
onto your business
shirt. You have no control over what just happened. What happens next will be determined by how you react. You
You harshly scold your daughter for knocking
the cup over. She breaks down in
tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the
too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs
and change your shirt.
Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy
crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses
Your spouse must leave immediately for
work. You rush to the car and drive your
daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30
After a 15-minute delay
and throwing $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your
daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye.
After arriving at the office 20
minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As
continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home.
When you arrive home, you find small wedge in your relationship with your spouse
Why? …. Because of how you reacted in the
Why did you have a bad day?
A) Did the coffee cause it?
B) Did your daughter cause it?
Did the policeman cause it?
D) Did you cause it?
The answer is "D".
You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in
seconds is what caused your bad day.
is what could have and should have happened.
splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "Its ok
honey, you just need to be more careful
next time". Grabbing a towel you rush
upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase, you come back down
to look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and
waves. You arrive 5 minutes
early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss
comments on how good the day you are having.
Notice the difference?
Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended different.
Because of how you REACTED.
You really do not have any control over 10% of
what happens. The other 90% was
determined by your reaction.
Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 principle. If someone says something
negative about you, don't
be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You
don't have to let the negative comment affect you!
React properly and it will not ruin your day. A
wrong reaction could result in losing a
friend, being fired, getting stressed out etc.
How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic? Do you lose your temper?
on the steering wheel? A friend of mine had the steering wheel fall off) Do you
curse? Does your blood pressure
skyrocket? Do you try and bump them?
if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the cars ruin your
Remember the 90/10 principle, and do not worry about it.
You are told you lost your job.
lose sleep and get irritated? It will work out. Use your worrying energy and time
into finding another job.
The plane is late; it is going to mangle your schedule for the day. Why take
frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on.
Use your time to study, get to know the other passenger. Why get stressed out? It
make things worse.
Now you know the 90-10 principle.
Apply it and you will be amazed at the results.
You will lose nothing if you try it. The 90-10 principle is incredible.
Very few know and
apply this principle.
Millions of people are suffering from undeserved
stress, trials, problems and
heartache. We all must understand and apply the 90/10 principle.
It CAN change your life!!!
(Forwarded by Mrs. Sheela Rayen)
The Given Light
Once upon a time a man had heard, that in a foreign place, far away, there was a holy flame burning. So he left his home
to find the holy flame and bring some of its light back home. He thought: 'When I have this light, I will have happiness
and life and all the people I love will have it too'.
He travelled for in search of that holy flame.And finally
he found it. he lit his light with the holy flame.On his way back he had only one worry:'That his light could go out'.
On his way home he met someone who was freezing and didn't have any fire and who begged him to give him some of
his fire. The man with the light hesitated for a moment. Wasn't his light too precious , too holy to be given away for
something ordinary like that? Despite these doubts, he decided to give some of his light to the one who was freezing in the
The man continued his journey home and when he had almost reached his house a terrible thunderstorm started.
He tried to protect his light from the rain and the storm, but at the end his light went out.
To return the long
way back to the foreign place where the holy flame was burning was impossible, he wouldn't have had enough strength to
go back this far-but he was strong enough to return to the stranger whom he had helped on his way home.
with his light he could light his own again.
Would you share your light with a stranger?
A LAW OF
I am impressed by an incident that happened during Ignacy Paderewski's (November 18, 1860
- June 29, 1941) career. The famous Polish pianist agreed to play a concert organized by two Stanford University students working their way through
school. Paderewski's manager said they would have to guarantee the artist a fee of $2,000. The boys agreed and eventually
the concert was held.
Though the two student promoters worked hard, they took in only $1,600. Discouraged, they
told Paderewski of their efforts and handed him the $1,600 with a note promising to pay him the balance of $400. But the artist
tore up the note and gave them back the $1,600. "Take your expenses out of this," he said, "give yourselves
each 10% of what's left for your work, and let me have the rest."
Years later, Paderewski was faced with
feeding the people of his war-ravaged Poland. Amazingly, even before a request was made, thousands of tons of food were sent to Poland by the United States.
Paderewski later traveled to Paris to thank Herbert Hoover, who headed up the US relief effort. "That's all right, Mr. Paderewski," said Hoover, "I knew
that the need was great. And besides, though you may not remember it, I was one of two college students whom you generously
helped when I was in need."
The story illustrates a law of successful living: sooner or later we will reap
what we sow. Paderewski reaped a harvest of kindness he had sown years before. Those who sow love will eventually reap love.
Those who sow goodness will reap even more. Those who sow fear and mistrust will reap an unwanted harvest later.
Forwarded by J. Justin
TO LOVE YOUR LIFE....
Erase Negative Programming
Do away with all the old, negative messages you were
given about yourself. If someone has told you that you are worthless, undeserving, dense or unattractive, that is their problem.
No one has a right to judge you or belittle you. We are all struggling to get by in this world, and no one else has all the
answers. Honour your own truth. In your own heart, you know who you are . . . don't let another take that power away from
you. Love yourself.
Everything in Life Happens for a Reason
is full of peaks and valleys. Even though they are more difficult, you learn more during the valleys or the challenging times.
When you are in a valley, you might not see the value of it; but later, when you look back, you will realize that you have
learned a great deal. Know that nothing you experience is an accident. Everything you experience and everyone you meet teaches
you something or holds a lesson for you.
Know That When
One Door Closes, Another Opens
Change is good. This is how you grow. Eventually you will see that sometimes
you have to lose something to gain something else. Even illness, death, and financial loss have a purpose. Did a tragedy bring
you closer to your family and friends? Did the community reach out to you? Were you forced to switch gears? Faith is knowing
that everything is okay and works out. You will grow stronger from all that you experience.
Trust Your Instincts
All your life, you have been taught to invalidate
your feelings. This is wrong. Your subconscious mind continually picks up and processes cues from your environment and from
other people. This is valuable information that you should not disregard. Don't let people talk you into doing something
that doesn't feel right to you. Trust your gut. If something doesn't feel right to you, then it probably isn't.
And you don't have to justify how you feel. Just say, "No thank you," or "I'd rather not," or
"I'm busy." Everyone else does not know more than you.
Being Alive Is Enough
Just ask people who almost lost their lives
and they will tell you that most of the stuff we fret over isn't that important. Being alive is a great gift. Don't
define yourself in such narrow terms as your work, your body, your house, your kids, or your relationships. Learn to see what
is precious around you each day. Do not take your good fortune for granted. Be thankful and humble. You do not have to justify
your life with a big list of accomplishments. Try to experience just being alive.
Love Your Body
It houses your spirit; it gets you what you
need. Appreciate what your body can do and stop focusing on what it can't. No one else's body would be better for
you. (Being thinner or better looking is not more valuable.) If you are not the most stunning person in town, then perhaps
this makes you more approachable to others. Even if you have a physical disability, there is a reason for this. It is not
to cause you suffering, rather it is an opportunity for you to grow or to understand or appreciate something in life. Perhaps
this will be the vehicle through which you meet a kindred spirit or discover some hidden talent within you. Be at peace and
trust that your soul is beautiful and so are you.
Enjoy the Beautiful
What is the weather like? Is it hot? Rainy? Windy? Enjoy getting where you are going. Are you
walking, driving, riding a bus? Are people talking, music playing, birds singing? Take notice of the colors, smells, textures,
buildings, sounds, people . . . everything around you. Take pleasure in the freedom you have to go from place to place. Stop
and smell the roses. This day will not happen again. Experience it. Take pleasure in the moment. It's great to be alive.
Enjoy Feeling Fine
when you had a toothache, the flu, or a migraine. Remember the relief you felt when you first started to feel better? Until
we are sick, we rarely appreciate how good it feels to feel well. Be glad you are well.
Lighten Up and Put Things in Perspective
Having a mini-crisis?
Is the world crashing down around you? Hey, relax. First of all, panicking never solved anything. Second, most things are
not that bad in hindsight. You're tougher than you think. You'll get through this, and you'll probably learn something
valuable in the process. You'll be okay!
Be Happy. Count Your Blessings Every Day
There is always someone else worse off than you. Look
around you: your life is full of blessings. Make a list of things you are thankful for: your sight, health, family, food,
shelter, a pet, your kids, friends, a good book. If you could even get out of bed this morning, then you are blessed. Do not
take all this good fortune for granted. Be thankful for all these blessings.
Use Positive Language.
Think Positive Thoughts Try not
to use negative words too much like hate, disgusting, sick, ugly, etc." Notice how things have improved in the world,
in your town, in your life. Look for beauty. Try not to be sarcastic. Sarcasm is a "put-down" of something or someone.
The way you act in the world is basically a habit. You can retrain your behavior and your thinking, and you will benefit by
doing so. Being considerate, kind, and positive is contagious and worth the investment.
Notice the Positive Side of Life
we are surrounded with love and positive things every day, the negative side of life seems to get a lot more publicity. Too
many negative images sap us of our optimism. So don't make a constant diet of negative people, newscasts, angry music,
violent movies, and conflict (Kids do not benefit from watching too many news shows). You are not alone in your hour of need.
Open your heart and be observant. You may hear a radio show, find a book, or meet a person who has your same illness. Just
as you cannot see the whole flower until it opens, it is all there waiting to be revealed. So are the answers to your problem.
Remember: BE HAPPY !
by: Sheela Rayen
The only survivor of a shipwreck was
washed up on a small, uninhabited island. He prayed feverishly for God to rescue him, and every day he scanned the horizon
for help, but none seemed forthcoming. Exhausted, he eventually managed to build a little hut out of driftwood to protect
him from the elements, and to store his few possessions. But then one day, after scavenging for food, he arrived home to find
his little hut in flames, the smoke rolling up to the sky. The worst had happened; everything was lost. He was stunned with
grief and anger. "God, how could you do this to me! he cried.
Early the next day, however, he was awakened
by the sound of a ship that was approcaching the island. It had come to rescue him." How did you know I was here? asked
the weary man of his rescuers. "We saw your smoke signal," they replied.
It is easy to get discouraged
when things are going bad. But we shouldn't lose heart, because God is at work in our lives, even in the midst of pain
and suffering. Remember, next time your little hut is burning to the ground - it just may be a signal that summons the grace
Forwarded by:J. Justin
Three things in life that, once gone, never come back
Three things in life that can destroy
things in life that you should never lose
Three things in life
that are most valuable
2. Family & Friends
Three things in life that are never certain
Three things that make a person
3. Hard work
Three things that are truly constant -
Father - Son - Holy Spirit
I ask the Lord to bless you, as I pray for you today,
To guide you and protect you, as you go along
God's love is always with
God's promises are true.
And when you give God all your cares,
You know God will see you through.
Forwarded By : Sheela Rayen
When you don't know
how to pray, pray anyway!
is no excuse.
When you don't feel like praying, pray anyway!
is no excuse.
When dullness sits on you like a vulture, and you can't muster enough enthusiasm to change channels,
much less to pray, pray anyway!
Boredom in no excuse!
When you see no need to pray and no reason to intercede for those about you,
recognize this as a sign of impending danger, and pray anyway!
Blindness is no excuse.
When you've grown spiritually lazy and feel that you'll never be
able to pick up your Bible and read it the way you once did, especially pray anyway.
Laziness is no excuse.
When you don't understand what big deal is about prayer, and you think
it's overrated because it never did you much good, pray anyway.
is no excuse.
When you're tired to remember your own name, and you know God will understand if you don't
pray, pray anyway.
Fatigue is no excuse.
When you're embarassed to be back before God, confessing the same sins
and admitting the same failures, come on and pray anyway.
Shame is no excuse.
When you've been unfaithful and you know it and you feel that burden of
guilt that makes you want to run and hide under the porch, pray anyway.
Sin is no excuse.
When the nagging voice of the enemy keeps telling you there is no God and even
if there were, He'd never have anything to do with a nothing like you, pray anyway.
is no excuse.
We can bless ourselves immeasurably by rescuing our prayer life from bondage to our emotions and
circumstances. There is no time and there are no conditions in which prayer is not necessary, not helpful, and not the right
thing to do.
Forwarded By: Ronali
Two men, both seriously ill,
occupied the same hospital room.
One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain
the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window.
The other man had to spend all his time
flat on his back.
The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their
jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation.
Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the
window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.
The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and
enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.
The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake.
Ducks and swans
played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color
and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.
As the man by the window described all this in exquisite details, the man on the other side of the room would
close his eyes and imagine this picturesque scene.
One warm afternoon, the man by the window described a par ade
Although the other man could not hear the band - he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman
by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.
Days, weeks and months passed.
One morning, the day nurse
arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in
She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away.
As soon as it seemed appropriate,
the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure
he was comfortable, she left him alone.
Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first
look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window besides the bed.
It faced a blank
The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful
things outside this window.
The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall.
She said, 'Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.'
There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations.
Shared grief is
half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled.
If you want to feel rich, just count all the
things you have that money can't buy.
'Today is a gift, that is why it is called The Present .'
Author Unknown, Forwarded by Jenson Fernando
Two brothers worked
on a family farm, sharing produce and profit. One was married, and the other wasn't.
One day the single brother
said to himself: It’s not fair that we should share the produce equally. I’m alone, but my brother has a family
to support. So at night he took a sack of grain from his bin, crept over the field between their houses, and dumped it into
is brother's bin.
Meanwhile, his brother has a similar idea, and said: It’s not right that we should
share the produce equally. I have a family whereas my brother is all alone. So at night he took a sack of grain from his bin,
and quietly dumped it into his brother's bin.
This went on for several years. Each was puzzled how his supply
One night they bumped into each other in the dark. When they realized what had been happening, they dropped
the sacks, and embraced each other.
Suddenly a voice from the heaven said "Here I will build my temple For
where people meet in love, There my presence shall dwell".
Do justice, God sees you. - Saint Veronica Giuliani (1660-1727)
Do not scrutinize so closely whether you are doing
much or little, ill or well, so long as what you do is not sinful and that you are heartily seeking to do everything for God.
Try as far as you can to do everything well, but when it is done, do not think about it. Try, rather, to think of what is
to be done next. Go on simply in the Lord's way, and do not torment yourself. We ought to hate our faults, but with a
quiet, calm hatred; not pettishly and anxiously. - St. Francis
we hear people talk of riches, honors and amusements of the world, let us remember that all things have an end, and let us
then say: "My God, I wish for You alone and nothing more." - Saint
Alphonsus Maria de Liguori (1696-1787)
If God causes you
to suffer much, it is a sign that He has great designs for you, and that He certainly intends to make you a saint. And if
you wish to become a great saint, entreat Him yourself to give you much opportunity for suffering; for there is no wood better
to kindle the fire of holy love than the wood of the cross, which Christ used for His own great sacrifice of boundless charity.
- Saint Ignatius of Loyola (1491-1556)
here are three things, my brethren, which causes
faith to stand firm, devotion to remain constant and virtue to endure. They are prayer, fasting and mercy. Prayer knocks at
the door, fasting obtains and mercy receives. Prayer, mercy and fasting are one. They give life to each other. - St Peter Chrysologus (400-450)
If my efforts stop just one sin from being committed, I shall consider them worthwhile. - St. John Francis Regis (1597-1640)
Since we consist of soul and body, both are involved in staying on the path. As either
may cause us to stumble, we must attend to both: Bodily purity, the protective abstinence from all shameful things and wicked
acts. And purity of the soul, keeping true faith in God, neither adding to nor subtracting
from it. Godliness is dimmed when the body is soiled and loses its integrity when falsehood
enters the soul. - St. Ireaneus
The Cross remains constant while the world turns. - Pope
John Paul II
The great need today is for Christians who are active
and critical, who don't accept situations without analyzing them inwardly and deeply. We want persons like fruitful fig trees, who can say yes to justice and no to injustice and can make use of the precious gift of life, regardless of the circumstances.
- Archbishop Oscar Romero
There are moments in life of special importance such as when the Lord shows us the
way to be followed and then leaves it up to our will to respond. - Blessed Margarita
de Maturana (1884-1934)
God does not impede temptations, first, so that you may be convinced of your strength; secondly, that you may be humble,
not proud; thirdly, that the devil, who may doubt whether you have really abandoned him, will be certain of that fact; fourthly,
so that you may become as strong as iron, understanding the value of the treasures which have been granted to you. - St. John Chrysostom
Above all we ought at least to know that there are three origins of our thoughts:
from God, from the devil, and from ourselves. - Saint John Cassian (360-433)
God is love, and all his operations proceed from love. Once he wills to manifest that goodness by sharing his love
outside himself, then the Incarnation becomes the supreme manifestation of his goodness and
love and glory. - Saint Lawrence of Brindisi (1559-1619)
Oh, my children, how sad it is! Three-quarters of those who are Christians labor for nothing but
to satisfy this body, which will soon be buried and corrupted, while they do not give a thought to their poor soul, which
must be happy or miserable for all eternity. They have neither sense nor reason: it makes one tremble. - Saint John Vianney
Prayer and fasting have been called the wings of the soul, and they who neither fast nor pray
cannot follow Christ. They cannot lift up their hearts. Great, then, is the contrast between the many and those holy and blessed
souls who rise with Christ and set their affection on things above. - Venerable
Cardinal John Henry Newman
In the created world fire cannot naturally be both small and great at one
and the same time. Humility cannot be genuine and at one and the same time have a worldly nature. Genuine humility is not
in us if we fall into voluntary sin, and this is the sign that there is some material attraction still within us. - Saint John Climacus
When we pray, the voice of the heart must be heard
more than that proceeding from the mouth. - Saint Bonaventure
is the fusion of two souls in one in order to bring about mutual perfection. - Saint
Terese of the Andes (1900-1920)
True servants of God preach
and teach those whom they guide only so as to lead them to God, as much by their words as by their works. - Saint Francis de Sales
Every time you begin a good work, you must pray to God most earnestly to bring it
to perfection. - Saint Benedict of Nursia (480-547)
Forwarded by J.Justin
Some people understand life better
And they call some of these people "retarded"... ,
At the Seattle Special Olympics, nine contestants, all physically or mentally
disabled, assembled at the starting line for the 100-yard dash. At the gun, they all started out, not exactly in a dash, but
with a relish to run the race to the finish and win.
that is, except one little boy who stumbled on the asphalt, tumbled over a couple of times, and began to cry. The other eight
heard the boy cry. They slowed down and looked back. Then they all turned around and went back every one of them. One girl
with Down's Syndrome bent down and kissed him and said," This will make it better."
Then all nine linked arms and walked together to the finish line. Everyone in the
stadium stood, the cheering went on for several minutes. People who were there are still telling the story... Why? Because
deep down we know this one thing: What matters in this life is more than winning
ourselves. What matters in this life is helping others win, even if it means slowing down and changing our course.
Forwarded by: Prashanth Fernando
businessman was growing old and knew it was time to choose a successor to take over the business. Instead of choosing
one of his Directors or his children, he decided to do something different. He called all the young executives in his company
together. He said, "It is time for me to step down and choose the next CEO. I have decided to choose one
of you." The executives were shocked, but the boss continued. "I am going to give each one of you a seed today
- one very special seed. I want you to plant the seed, water it, and come back here one year
from today with what you have grown from the seed I have given you. I will judge the plants that you bring, and the
one I choose will be the next CEO." One man named Jim was there that
day and he, like the others, received a seed. He went home and excitedly told his wife the story. She helped him
get a pot, soil and compost, and he planted the seed. Every day, he would water it and watch to see if it had grown.
After about three weeks, some of the other executives began to talk about their seeds and the plants that were beginning to
grow. Jim kept checking his seed, but nothing ever grew. Three weeks, four weeks, five
weeks went by - still nothing. By now, others were talking about their plants, but Jim didn't have a plant and he
felt like a failure. Six months went by and there was still nothing in Jim's pot.
He just knew he had killed his seed. Everyone
else had trees and tall plants, but he had nothing. Jim didn't say anything to his colleagues, he just kept watering
and fertilizing the soil - he so wanted the seed to grow. A year finally went by and all
the young executives of the company brought their plants to the CEO for inspection. Jim told his wife that he wasn't
going to take an empty pot, but she asked him to be honest about what happened. Jim felt sick to his stomach; it was
going to be the most embarrassing moment of his life, but he knew that his wife was right. Jim decided to take the empty
pot to the board room. When Jim arrived, he was amazed at the variety
of plants grown by the other executives. They were beautiful - in all shapes and sizes. Jim put his empty pot
on the floor and many of his colleagues laughed; a few felt sorry for him. When the CEO arrived, he surveyed the room
and greeted his young executives. Jim just tried to hide in the back. "My, what great plants, trees and flowers
you have grown!" said the CEO. "Today, one of you will be appointed the next CEO." All of a sudden,
he spotted Jim at the back of the room with his empty pot. He ordered the financial director to bring him to the front.
Jim was terrified. He thought, "The
CEO knows I'm a failure! Maybe he will have me fired!" When Jim got to the front, the CEO asked him what
had happened to his seed. Jim told him the story. The CEO asked everyone to sit down
except Jim. He looked at him and then announced to the young executives, "Behold your next Chief Executive!
His name is Jim." Jim couldn't believe it. He couldn't even grow his seed.
"How could he
be the new CEO?" the others said.
Then the CEO said, "One year ago today, I gave everyone in this room a seed.
I told you to take the seed, plant it, water it and bring it back to me today. But I gave you all boiled seeds - they
were dead; it was not possible for them to grow. All of you, except Jim. have brought me trees, plants and flowers.
When you found that the seed would not grow, you substituted another seed for the one I gave you. Jim was the only one
with the courage and honesty to bring me a pot with my seed in it. Therefore, he is the one who will be the new Chief
plant honesty, you will reap trust.
If you plant goodness, you
will reap friends.
If you plant humility, you will reap greatness.
If you plant perseverance, you will reap
If you plant consideration, you will reap success.
If you plant forgiveness, you will reap reconciliation.
you plant faith in God, you will reap a harvest.
So, what you plant now; it will determine what you will reap later.
Forwarded by: Prashanth Fernando
Here Lies Someone Who Was Going To Be Happy Tomorrow
The high school student thinks, "When I'm out of this school and don't
have to do what I'm told, then everything will be great!" He leaves school and suddenly recognizes that he won't
be happy until he has left home. He leaves home and starts university and soon decides, "When I've got my degree,
then I'll be really happy!" Eventually he gets his degree at which time he realizes that he can't be happy until
he has a job.
He gets his job and has to start at the
bottom of the heap. You guessed. He can't be happy yet. As the years roll by, he postpones his happiness and peace of
mind until he gets engaged, gets married, starts buying a home, gets a better job, starts a family, gets the kids in school,
owns his home, gets the kids out of school, retires ... and he drops dead before he allows himself to be blissfully happy.
All his present moments were spent planning for a wonderful future which never arrived.
- Extracted from 'Being Happy!' forwarded by Prashanth Fernando
An Article Address by Azim Premji in the "Shaping Young Minds Program" (SYMP) organized by AIMA in collaboration
with the Bombay Management Association (BMA) in Mumbai on "My Lessons in Life".
I am very happy to be
here with you. It is always wonderful to be with young people. As my hair turned from black, to salt and pepper and finally
salt without the pepper, I have begun to realize the importance of youth. At the same time, I have begun to truly appreciate
some of the lessons I have learnt along the way. I hope you will find them useful when you plan your own career and life.
The first thing I have learnt is that we must always begin with our strengths. There is an imaginary
story of a rabbit. The rabbit was enrolled in a rabbit school. Like all rabbits, it could hop very well but could not swim.
At the end of the year, the rabbit got high marks in hopping but failed in swimming. The parents were concerned. They said,
"Forget about hopping. You are anyway good at it. Concentrate on swimming." They sent the rabbit for tuitions in
swimming. And guess what happened? The rabbit forgot how to hop! As for swimming, have you ever seen a rabbit swim? While
it is important for us to know what we are not good at, we must also cherish what is good in us. That is because it is only
our strengths that can give us the energy to correct our weaknesses.
The second lesson I have
learnt is that a rupee earned is of far more value than five found. My friend was sharing me the story of his eight year-old
niece. She would always complain about the breakfast. The cook tried everything possible, but the child remained unhappy.
Finally, my friend took the child to a supermarket and brought one of those ready-to-cook packets. The child had to cut the
packet and pour water in the dish. The child found the food to be absolutely delicious? The difference was that she has cooked
it! In my own life, I have found that nothing gives as much satisfaction as earning our rewards. In fact, what is gifted or
inherited follows the old rule of come easy, go easy. I guess we only know the value of what we have if we have struggled
to earn it.
The third lesson I have learnt is no one bats a hundred every time. Life has
many challenges. You win some and lose some. You must enjoy winning. But do not let it go to the head. The moment it does,
you are already on your way to failure. And if you do encounter failure along the way, treat it as an equally natural phenomenon.
Don't beat yourself for it or any one else for that matter! Accept it, look at your own share in the problem, learn from
it and move on. The important thing is, when you lose, do not lose the lesson.
lesson I have learnt is the importance of humility. Sometimes, when you get so much in life, you really start wondering whether
you deserve all of it. We have so much to be grateful for. Our parents, our teachers and our seniors have done so much for
us that we can never repay them. Many people focus on the shortcomings, because obviously no one can be perfect. But it is
important to first acknowledge what we have received. Nothing in life is permanent but when a relationship ends, rather than
becoming bitter, we must learn to savor the memory of the good things while they lasted.
The fifth lesson I learnt is that we must always strive for excellence. One way of achieving excellence is by looking at
those better than ourselves. Keep learning what they do differently. But excellence cannot be imposed from the outside. We
must also feel the need from within. It must involve not only our mind but also our heart and soul. Excellence is not an act
but a habit. I remember the inspiring lines of a poem, which says that your reach must always exceed your grasp. That is heaven
on earth. Ultimately, your only competition is yourself.
The sixth lesson I have learnt
is never give up in the face of adversity. It comes on you suddenly without warning. Always keep in mind that it is only the
test of fire that makes fine steel. A friend of mine shared this incident with me. His eight-year old daughter was struggling
away at a jigsaw puzzle. She kept at it for hours but could not succeed. Finally, it went beyond her bedtime. My friend told
her, "Look, why don't you just give up? I don't think you will complete it tonight. Look at it another day."
The daughter looked with a strange look in her eyes, "But, dad, why should I give up? All the pieces are there! I have
just got to put them together!" If we persevere long enough, we can put any problem into its perspective.
The seventh lesson I have learnt is that while you must be open to change, do not compromise on your
values. Mahatma Gandhiji often said that you must open the windows of your mind, but you must not be swept off your feet by
the breeze. Values like honesty, integrity, consideration and humility have survived for generations. At the end of the day,
it is values that define a person more than the achievements. Do not be tempted by short cuts. The short cut can make you
lose your way and end up becoming the longest way to the destination.
And the final lesson
I learnt is that we must have faith in our own ideas even if everyone tells us that we are wrong. There was once a newspaper
vendor who had a rude customer. Every morning, the Customer would walk by, refuse to return the greeting, grab the paper off
the shelf and throw the money at the vendor. The vendor would pick up the money, smile politely and say, "Thank you,
Sir." One day, the vendor's assistant asked him, "Why are you always so polite with him when he is so rude to
you? Why don't you throw the newspaper at him when he comes back tomorrow?" The vendor smiled and replied, "He
can't help being rude and I can't help being polite. Why should I let his rude behavior dictate my politeness?
I hope you achieve success in whatever way you define it and what gives you the maximum happiness in life. "Remember,
those who win are those who believe they can."
Forwarded By Sheela Rayen
Arthur Ashe, the legendary tennis player
was dying of CANCER.
From world over,
he received letters from his fans, one of which conveyed: "Why does GOD have to select you for such a fatal disease"?
To this Arthur, Ashe replied: The world
over -- 5 billion children start playing tennis, 5 million learn to play tennis, 0.5 million learn professional tennis, 50,000
come to the circuit, 5000 reach the grand slam, 50 reach Wimbledon, 4 to semi final, 2 to the finals, When I was holding a
cup I never asked GOD "Why me?".
today, while in pain, I should not be asking GOD "Why me?"
Happiness keeps u Sweet, Trials keep u Strong, Sorrow keeps u Human, Failure Keeps u Humble, Success keeps u
glowing, but only God Keeps u going.
The train has started moving. It is packed with
people of all ages, mostly with the working men and women and young college guys and gals. Near the window, seated a old man
with his 30 year old son. As the train moves by, the son is overwhelmed with joy as he was thrilled with the scenery outside. "
See dad, the scenery of green trees moving away is very beautiful". This behavior from a thirty year
old son made the other people feel strange about him. Every one started murmuring something or other about this son."This
guy seems to be a krack.." newly married Anup whispered to his wife.
Suddenly it started raining... Rain drops fell on the travelers through the opened window.
The Thirty year old son , filled with joy " see dad, how beautiful the rain is .." Anup's
wife got irritated with the rain drops spoiling her new suit.
Anup ," cant you see its raining, you old man, if ur son is not feeling
well get him soon to a mental asylum..and dont disturb public henceforth" The old man hesitated first and then
in a low tone replied " we are on the way back from hospital, my son got discharged today morning , he was a blind by
birth, last week only he got his vision, these rain and nature are new to his eyes.. Please forgive us for the inconvenience
The things we see may be right
from our perspective until we know the truth. But when we know the truth our reaction to that will hurt even us. So try to
understand the problem better before taking a harsh action.
Forwarded by Sheela Rayen
A professor stood before his Philosophy class and had some items
in front of him.
When things in your life seem, almost too much to handle,
When 24 Hours in a day is not enough,
Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.
A professor stood
before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him.
When the class began, wordlessly,
picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students,
if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into
the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.
then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box
of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar
was full. The students responded with a unanimous 'yes.'
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from
under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The
'Now,' said the professor, as the laughter subsided,
'I want you to recognize that
this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things - family, children, health, Friends, and Favorite
Things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, Your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, house, and car.
The sand is everything else
--The small stuff.
'If you put the sand into the jar first,' He continued, 'there is no room for the
pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,
You will never have room for the things that are important to you.
So ... ...
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.
There will always
be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.
'Take care of the golf balls first --
The things that really
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what
the coffee represented.
The professor smiled..
'I'm glad you asked'.
It just goes to show you that
no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'