Just then a man came up to Jesus and asked, “Teacher, what good thing must
I do to gain eternal life?” “Why do you ask me about what is good?” Jesus replied. “There is only
One who is good. If you want to enter life, keep the commandments.” “Which ones?” he inquired. Jesus replied,
“ ‘You shall not murder, you shall not commit adultery, you shall not steal, you shall not give false testimony,
honor your father and mother, and ‘love your neighbor as yourself.’” “All these I have kept,”
the young man said. “What do I still lack?” Jesus answered, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions
and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.” When the young man heard this, he
went away sad, because he had great wealth. Then Jesus said to his disciples, “Truly I tell you, it is hard for someone
who is rich to enter the kingdom of heaven. Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than
for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God.” When the disciples heard this, they were greatly astonished and
asked, “Who then can be saved?” Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God
all things are possible.” (Matthew 19:16-26)
The young man in this story has a deep question that
expresses a very strong desire for a communion with God. He is in search of a life full of meaning. How to live a life where
God is the center of everything? One might even say that he asks Jesus: What does God really want from me? One has the impression
that the young man is ready for anything!
Jesus answers him by quoting the last five of the Ten Commandments, which
speak of this love for one’s neighbor being put into practice. The young man responds by saying that he has always kept
these commandments. And yet, he feels that it is not enough! He is looking for more. Did Jesus purposely give him an answer
that did not satisfy him? It is as if Jesus wanted to make the young man understand for himself that it is not the Law that
will allow him a personal and direct relationship with God.
Then the young man insists: What am I lacking? What more
must I do? Jesus says to him, “If you want to be perfect, go, sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will
have treasure in heaven. Then come, follow me.” These are rather unexpected words from Jesus and cause a kind of shock
in the young man.
Jesus’ first answer did not live up to his expectations, but now the answer goes too far, it
is too radical! According to the gospel of Mark, Jesus looked at him and loved him before uttering these words. Jesus is not
putting him to the test. He does not say these words to bother him! But rather, he sees into the depths of this young man’s
heart. He sees that his wealth and possessions are making him a “slave”. His wealth prevents this young man from
being free and—as we say in today’s language—from being himself.
This man was ready to do much to
obtain life in fullness with God, but he did not imagine that the true answer resided rather in renunciation. A brother of
our community who has lived in Bangladesh for a long time writes: “To live our vocation as a brother, it is not only
a matter of saying ‘yes’ to Christ, but also of saying ‘no’ to things that prevent us from living
this vocation.” What prevents me from being free to follow Christ? What prevents me from being able to give the best
part of my heart to God, to others? What is our challenge today? Perhaps not so much great wealth, but for example looking
for a comfortable life, looking for some ease. Are we not called to understand, as Brother Roger said, that “nothing
really beautiful is built when things are too easy”?
Before the narrative of the rich young man, there is the
story of the way Jesus welcomed children. He says tells us to welcome children, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to those
who are like them. Being rich means being able to organize and control your life as you please. Becoming a child means being
available for what life gives us, for what God gives us.
The young man went away sad, because he had great possessions.
It may not be the end of the story. It is quite possible that he will return later to Jesus, with joy and simplicity. Instead
of an end, it is perhaps the beginning of a story, the beginning of a life following Jesus.
How can I make room for my desire to live life fully with Christ?
What prevents me from living with God fully?
What are my fears about the choices I would like to make?
How am I able to live as a child?